Many men want to give sexy gifts to their wives or girlfriends, but they are often confused about the specifics. Whether you’re looking for a sexy Christmas gift, a sexy Valentine or birthday present, or a sexy “just because” gift for her, here are three unique ideas, in order of cheapest to most expensive.
1. Sexy Photo Calendar.
A very romantic man I know hired a photographer to do a photoshoot, and then used the pictures to create a calendar as a sexy gift for his wife. The photos are all very tasteful (yet unmistakably sexy!) and show a different aspect of her that she loves – her athletic side, showing her doing push-ups in a white muscle shirt that shows off her sexy arms and shoulders – and her cowboy side, complete with a cowboy hat pulled over his eyes and wearing nothing but faded jeans and an open leather vest. You get the idea!
Of course, it takes a bit of planning beforehand if you need professional photos, but if you already have a collection of photos of yourself that you know she likes, why not use them? Or, for a more romantic sexy calendar concept, use a photo of the two of you together.
You can even create your own calendar online by uploading photos and customizing your calendar before ordering a print. There are many online options for this, two examples being mycalendarmaker.com and zazzle.com. Mac users can even create calendars right in iPhoto, then order with the click of a mouse.
2. Pole Dancing Pole.
If she loves fitness (or wants to be), a dance pole is one of the trendiest fitness gifts you can give. And while gifting a treadmill or stationary bike can get you in the doghouse (“are you saying I’m fat?”), the dance pole is all about the fun factor.
Pole dancing as a form of exercise is steadily growing in popularity, so if she wants to give it a try, why not surprise her with her own pole dancing pole to use at home? Prices range from about $150 to $350 (depending on quality, installation method, and materials), which is very reasonable when compared to other types of home fitness equipment.
Women say learning to pole dance not only makes them stronger and fitter, but it also gives them more confidence and self-esteem. And what’s sexier than a strong, fit and confident woman? If you’re lucky, he might even be willing to show you his new skills once he’s learned a few moves. Bonus!
3. Sexual Empowerment Course.
If you want to give her the sexiest gift, you might consider signing the two of you up for a couples retreat. Even if your sex life is already good, spending time with your partner to focus solely on the two of you, and learning about what makes each other tick, is a great way to deepen your relationship.
Today, there are so many options to choose from that you are sure to find one that is right for both of you. Maybe the attraction of a couple’s Tantric sex retreat, or maybe a weekend of Yoga for a couple that teaches breathing exercises and techniques designed to enhance your intimacy and physical connection is something he’s eager to explore.
This year, instead of an itchy piece of underwear that only looks good on a model, why not give her a sexy gift that is unique, creative, and chosen with her interests in mind? He will love you even more for it!
Susan Peach is a dance and fitness instructor, as well as an online publisher. She’s lucky to have a partner who knows the importance of sexy gifts for women, and who specializes in helping her feel really sexy at gift-giving events. After taking up pole dancing for fitness a few years ago, Susan has compiled her top pick of the best sexy Christmas gifts for pole dancers on her website.